Right, ive heard that you shouldn't talk to Bastilla after the fade-to-black moment, as it'll change what she says later on, but i have...

so i was wondering if there was a way to reset the conversation through KSE? changing the variables in there

anyone know what id need to change? or how id find out?

Try setting K_SWG_BASTILA (numeric) to back to 10. This should allow you to redo the dialog branch that goes:

"When we last talked you said you needed time to think. So?"

"You have been patient with me, haven't you? I suppose you deserve an answer. But you have to understand how difficult this is for me to say."

What dialog choice did you make that you want to undo exactly?

Hey, thanks, that worked!

May the Force be with you!

You might have set some other variable when you completed your dialog the first time that will still make Bastila react in a way that you're not intending. Post again if dialog isn't behaving as expected.

Well, i heard that if you dont talk to Bastilla after the fade to black kiss thing, then new conversation options appears later on, where she says she wont betray you etc instead

the problem was i had already talked to her asking about what happened, and id like to go back a step, if that makes sense?